Codependency Questionnaire

Click Yes or No for each question. Click the Submit button when completed.

1. Do you worry about how much someone else drinks/uses? Yes
No
2. Do you have money problems because of someone else's drinking/using? Yes
No
3. Do you tell lies to cover up for someone else's drinking/using? Yes
No
4. Do you feel that drinking/using is more important to your loved one than you are? Yes
No
5. Do you think that the drinker's/user's behavior is caused by his or her companions? Yes
No
6. Are mealtimes often delayed because of the drinker/user? Yes
No
7. Do you make threats, such as "if you don't stop drinking/using I will leave you"? Yes
No
8. When you kiss the drinker hello, do you secretly try to smell his or her breath? Yes
No
9. Are you afraid to upset someone for fear it will set off a drinking or using bout? Yes
No
10. Have you been hurt or embarrassed by a drinker's/users behavior? Yes
No
11. Does it seem as if every holiday is spoiled because of drinking? Yes
No
12. Have you considered calling the police because of drinking/using behavior? Yes
No
13. Do you find yourself searching for hidden liquor/drugs? Yes
No
14. Do you feel that if the drinker/user loved you, he or she would stop drinking/using to please you? Yes
No
15. Have you refused social invitations out of fear or anxiety? Yes
No
16. Do you sometimes feel guilty when you think of the lengths you have gone to control your drinker/user? Yes
No
17. Do you think that if the drinker/user stopped drinking/using your other problems would be solved? Yes
No
18. Do you ever threaten to hurt yourself to scare the drinker/user into saying "I'm sorry" or "I love you"? Yes
No
19. Do you ever treat people (children, employees, parents, coworkers) unjustly because you are angry at someone else for drinking/using too much? Yes
No
20. Do you feel there is no one who understands your problems? Yes
No